Pregnancy and Intimacy
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Libido During Pregnancy?
During your first trimester when you are in the throws of morning sickness sex may be the last thing on your mind. After reaching the second trimester however, most women find their libidos much higher. During this time you may crave more physical intimacy with your partner, and will probably find that when you do have intercourse your sense of pleasure is heightened. This is due in part to the increased amount of blood flowing through your genitals. You can thank baby.
Most couples have several questions regarding sex during pregnancy. Below we'll attempt to answer some of the more common questions regarding sex during pregnancy.
Is Sex Safe During Pregnancy?
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For most women sex during pregnancy is perfectly safe. If you have a normal pregnancy chances are your doctor will give you the go ahead. Many couples continue having intercourse right up until the time they deliver. You will however as you get larger probably find you need to change positions so you are comfortable while making love to your partner. If you have any questions or concerns about sex during pregnancy you should talk with your healthcare provider. Some women, including those with a history or miscarriage or women in high risk pregnancies may need to abstain from intercourse for a time or for the duration of their pregnancy. If this is the case fortunately there are many ways to be intimate without engaging in intercourse. Intimacy is vital in pregnancy and will help you and your partner remain close throughout your pregnancy.
Will My Partner Hurt the Baby?
Contrary to popular belief, your partner will not hurt the baby during sex. Your partner cannot 'bang' into the baby's head. This is probably an old wives' tale. You may however experience some stronger than average contractions of your uterus during orgasm. This should not be painful. The uterus normally contracts during orgasm. In fact the uterus contracts several times a day in response to various activities, even exercise. During pregnancy you are more aware of this sensation as your uterus expands. You may feel a brief tightening in your abdomen after climax. Sit back and relax for a bit. Getting up too quickly may result in round ligament pain.
Can Sex Induce Labor?
Toward the end of the third trimester sex may help promote cervical ripening. Intercourse itself is not likely to induce labor. However, semen does contain prostaglandin, tiny chemicals that can help ripen and prepare the cervix for labor. Contractions of the uterus during climax can also help stimulate or strengthen labor. Most couples enjoy helping the process along by engaging in intercourse frequently during this time. Of course, there are always stories of couples that were intimate and had the baby just a few hours later. While this is likely more coincidence than an actual cause and effect relationship, it can still be fun trying.
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My Partner Isn't Attracted To Me, What Do I Do?
Many men find the blossoming shape of their partner during pregnancy a real turn on. Unfortunately a few men find they have mixed feelings about their
wives' body during pregnancy. The important thing to remember here is that you are a beautiful, ripe and magnificent human being. During pregnancy you are creating a miracle inside of you. Take pride in your pregnant body. Buy yourself a nice outfit or two, do your makeup and walk around with pride. You should feel like a sexy and confident woman, even with a few added pounds. Most women enjoy many of the changes that occur during their pregnancy, including their increasing bust line. Your self-confidence and energy are likely to rub off on your partner. You should also let your partner know how you are feeling if you feel rejected. It is important to remain close and let your partner know what your needs are during pregnancy. Intimacy is an important part of connecting for most couples, and your partner has to understand this.
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